How (Not) to Be a Man

Home
Notes
Archive
Leaderboard
About
How (Not) to Throw a Holiday Party
Plus, some of my favorite things of 2023 and a ton of martini talk!
 • 
Dave Schilling
How (Not) to Get Old
Plus, my thoughts on the new Adidas Fear of God collab
 • 
Dave Schilling

October 2023

How (Not) to Wear Socks
Plus, the HBO Mr. Chow Doc, and More
 • 
Dave Schilling
How (Not) to be in a Movie
Literal "big" fits that millions of people will see
 • 
Dave Schilling

September 2023

How (Not) to Wear a Neckerchief
Plus, a final goodbye to summertime cocktails on the patio
 • 
Dave Schilling

August 2023

How (Not) to Travel
Or, Why Packing Light Is a God-Level Decision
 • 
Dave Schilling
How to Come to Terms With Your Sexuality
Plus what to do about moths in your vintage clothes
 • 
Dave Schilling

July 2023

How (Not) to Wear a Tuxedo
But first, I excavate the death of the LA Dream
 • 
Dave Schilling
What Are My Favorite Pants?
Subscriber Q&A Time!
 • 
Dave Schilling
1
How (Not) to Wear a Hoodie
One thing I promise to never do to you is lie in this newsletter. OK, other than the time I said this would be coming out every other Sunday. I missed…
 • 
Dave Schilling

June 2023

Join my chat
A private space for us to converse and connect
 • 
Dave Schilling
How to Properly Enjoy Chest Hair
A year or so ago, I wrote a piece for the LA Times about the little pleasures of showing chest hair. I had just started embracing the fact that I have a…
 • 
Dave Schilling
1
© 2024 Dave Schilling
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start WritingGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture